Pain of Rejection

Getting Rejected is always a pain and its more pain when the same happens in a romantic relationship.The mood would oscillate between utter bitternes and sudden resolve to face the reality.So this little blog would act as some help for those who are facing the pain.

1.Accept the reality:This is better said than done.What i mean by this is,the more you try to woo a person,more you appear desperate in their eyes and you would end up screwing whatever chance you have right now.When things aren't going your way,its better to be silent and dormant till you regain your composure.Accept the reality means , do not try too hard.A person has every right to reject you and respect their decision.

2.Share your emotions and feelings with some one who would not judge you.Vent out your anger,bitterness.More you do these, the speedier will be the recovery.

3.Positive sides of rejection are
a) Atleast you tried what most people are afraid of ie you had the guts to ask some one.so pat your back for that.
b) Hereafter you need not care what you wear or how you look...atleast for sometime to come. Believe me this is a great feeling...Being yourself without worrying what the other person would think about you.

4.If you think its definately over and if you think you still have the feelings for him/her then do not accept the invitation to be a friend.If you believe there is no chance of getting her/him,its better to move away.Delete her/his phone number from your mobile,remove his/her chat address from your chat.In simpler words shut yourself.If you are able to do this,you would recover quickly.

5.Finally,these things happen in life and it has happened to millions of ppl.Nothing to feel bad about it.Lie low for sometime and then startlooking for some one special again.May you find them soon.